Thursday, February 23, 2012

Where’s the love?

Dear Fitblrs,

I’ve wrestled with if I should write this post or not, but I’ve always been honest here and I have to say what’s been on my mind lately.

I haven’t felt much love in the community for me the last few weeks. I started this blog for ME, but over the years I’ve come to rely on this community for love and support. 

This next month I will truly have A LOT OF LIFE TO MEASURE. With my first marathon, a 700 mile move, wrapping up a job, and starting a new one.

I have so many plates spinning in the air it’s overwhelming at times. I come here to vent or brag on myself at times and yet I feel it’s for the most part gone unnoticed. Don’t get me wrong there are a few “regulars” and even some new folks whose love and support have really kept me sane.

I know when I look through my dash I go out of my way to cheer on people who are taking on new challenges or gearing up for something big. 

I’m not asking for everyone to “like” every post of mine, but I personally cherish every interaction I have on here and I hope others do as well. I know my dash can overwhelm me at times, but I think of the story of little boy throwing starfish back into the ocean. 

My message is this. YOU. Yes YOU reading this makes a difference in this tumblr community. Never forget that. Empower yourself to make a difference here.

Lots of Love,

MLife 

Posted at 10:55 AM 27 notes

Notes

  1. my-own-melt said: i thought you were leaving tumblr. my heart stopped. can we be texting friends? is that a weird question? sometimes i try to text you & forget i dont have your number haha
  2. runnerber said: heck yes!
  3. thehealthexperiment said: I’m sorry if I have neglected you! I am bad about consistently reading updates… but I absolutely love to hear from you when I do! :) I really enjoy the community too, and appreciate the support! :)
  4. veggielife said: In my not-posting-much I guess I’m also not commenting much, but I have still been reading. I am VERY excited for your lunch date w/ David Cook & to read all about your first marathon experience!! Sometimes I’m quiet but I’m always cheering you on :)
  5. 94monkeys said: I’m sorry that you feel like this! your new life is so exciting and I can’t wait to hear more about it. I know you are going to own that marathon. and Mr Cook. Well, maybe just have breakfast with him.
  6. kyliefrost said: It’s quality that matters, not quantity. That’s how I look at it. Best wishes for all of your upcoming challenges!
  7. thefoodchronicles said: I cherish the interaction too, it is a vital part of my life and eggs me on to better myself. I follow to many people so I will make a valued effort to be more supportive to everyone I follow & maybe cut down on followers
  8. celebratingorselfmedicating said: I know you have a lot on your plate coming up and I can’t imagine how stressful that must be! I know you’ll come out on top in all areas. I will be here cheering you on from afar as you finish your marathon, make your move, and start your new job.
  9. lifeasliia said: the community has changed w/time much less active communication. but when i see your posts, i always enjoy them! & i’ll keep an eye out for ur 1st marathon! (i just did my first with little fitblr response but u’ll see, regardless it’ll feel AMAZING)
  10. queenoflean said: Sorry, friend! Will try to be more vocal about cheering you on. Excited to hear about the move & (potentially?) that new gentleman friend of yours. Keep on truckin’
  11. catchmecassie said: I feel this way, too, and have not posted it because I assume I would be attacked. I’ve also had some people unfollow me lately, for no reason, who I really liked, and it hurts. But if you say anything, people attack you. Because life is high school.
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